40% of the city old men in China do not have happiness sense " lonely " Need to be all-round to mediate

40% of the city old men in China do not have happiness sense " lonely " Need to be all-round to mediate
"Go out one lock, stock the door a lamp. " This is many " The empty nest old man " True life portrayal. China aged scientific the intersection of research center and one statistics reveal, feel happiness and more happily only accounting for 56.9% in the urban old person, rural these proportion of old person only 33.1%.
The old man supporting parents and serving over certificate, advanced age subsidy, hundred at home will also obtain extra allowance of the government Various support parents at home policy benefit, wear increasingly many the elderly, the elderly material life have guarantee, but spiritual consolation is still deficient. The reporter finds in the interview, the old man has dull daily life; Old man psychological problem, disappearance and community that family show loving care for of oneself auxiliary facility completion the main reason that the old man can not be getting happy.
Scene one of lonely life It is accompanied by TV to stay indoors
It is only more than ten steps to go from bedroom to the sitting room, this is that Five Love in Fengtai district collects the distance from bed to television of resident's tall and big mother, get up, tall and big mother will go to sitting room, turn on TV set, one buttocks get into sofa every day. Except going out to buy vegetables and walk a dog, the tall and big mother, mostly the nest is at home, seldom choose to come into the community and participate in the activity. "Is not familiar with others, what is gathered is lively. " Son Mr. Liu says, seldom see the smile from the deep of the heart from mother's face by oneself, advising it to chat with the neighbour more, she is unwilling too, very afraid mother has got self-closing disease.
Relevant materials indicate, 85% of the people have a psychological problem at various degrees more or less in the elderly, 27% of the people have psychological obstacles such as obvious anxiety, melancholy,etc., a lot of old men are unwilling to walk out and contact the community voluntarily after retiring, participate in the activity, lead to the fact psychology and spiritual state go wrong.
Lonely life scene two Take transit buses and kill time
Know Li gentle Great Britain (assumed name), resident of community in spring in Haidian District Lover pass away 1970,for over 30 years, she one lives personal. Young Li WenYing is always a monthly ticket of a public transit on hands, run to and fro everywhere, "I felt at that time day can be substantiated just like a ' living map '. " Already 76 -year-old Li Wen Great Britain does not have very good ability to move around nowadays, can't walk too far distance, old the intersection of partner and some in the floor pass away already, some healthy, connection little and a lot of each other, " lonely " Two words have unavoidably looked for oneself. Li WenYing has one to mediate lonely method, it is the public transit station going to the gate of Residential Area alone, take a bus by the terminal, then sit back and take nearly 3 hours back and forth sometimes, "in this way, can wear down the time of a whole morning, can see the change of Beijing too. " Li WenYing explains like this.
WenYing Li live alone, afraid of, cause children trouble, son, daughter she was gladdest phone her, every day, especially the daughter, tell some things at work and things of the old neighbour's of before, can always provoke Li WenYing into a hearty laughter. "Children give me send things sometimes, I say you I am most happy a moment later in stay a moment in the large house hollow this by I always, if can also see more grandsons and grandson sons, that is gladder. "
The reporter knows in the interview, a lot of old men propose living in the old people's home voluntarily, among them a very important reason is that there are companions speaking in the old people's home, also volunteers will be taking rich and colourful items condolence of old people's home sometimes, accompany the old man to chat. And the uninteresting life at home will only add the lonely sense of the old man alone.
Lonely life scene three Recreational facilities like running to the town little
The understanding in the general meaning, it is usually the obligation of the family, children's obligation to support. But with the arrival of the society of senilization of Beijing, aged population increases sharply, it is a question of the family that the problem of how to treat the elderly is no longer simple, the reporter finds in the investigation, whether the community activity is abundant, determine the happy intensity of the old man to a great extent.
Move in it and lead to garden over one year, " like playing " Li aunt incompatible without being felt always. In her eyes, this " sleeps in the city " at the moment Amuse by auxiliary facility basic to do nothing about compared with Xidan hutong where she lives before: She produce entrance of hutong want, stroll around where where does it stroll around, buy, become difficult by one satisfactory shoes in nearby store now in the past, life becomes dull and lonely more and more too.
Aunt Li's spouse uncle Qi has the same feeling too. Love, play tennis and he of table tennis since move the intersection of it and coherent the intersection of garden and the east to since the 2 district, the bats will all become furnishings soon. May of this year, the underground movable room of old age of first where uncle Qi wishes to come to the community with great difficulty, but he has not found time to know some new cagers yet, the recreational center has infiltrated and has been forced to close, the gate is locked closely so far. The old folks clear-cut one run the town, let the interesting place join in the fun.
Expert's view The old man's loneliness needs to be all-round to mediate
Researcher of Ins of Developed Organisms,Academia Sinica, doctoral supervisor Korea S. expresses cloth newly, as to the elderly, especially empty the intersection of nest and old man, often can appear lonely psychological state. Korea S. cloth think, to old man, should keep sure the intersection of intelligence and sport newly, participate in certain collective activity. From the viewpoint of family, the old man's children should keep in touch with the old man more, improve the concern intensity to the old man. The staff members of residents committee of community, should respect the old man, more cultural and educational care, for example the community releases the old age and serve the card, insist on the old man going to the community to fetch, the disappearance of undoubtedly such cultural and educational care will let the old man feel bitterly disappointed; Secondly should offer more playgrounds for the old men that support parents at home, organize some pointed activities, improve the enthusiasm of old man's communal participation; Conditional, can also invite the psychology expert to offer psychological consultation to old man, help the old man to go out of the psychological shade, make the old man really getting happy. (Wang Qiong Ye XiaoYan Make future)
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