" two generations alone " Lonely in childhood Parents send the card and collect playmates as the child

" two generations alone " Lonely in childhood Parents send the card and collect playmates as the child
P>Worry the only-child for being lonely, young parents surf the Net the hair card advertise for a friend for the childP>"Look for the friend for the child of my home. 4 and a half years old, the boy, more introversive, hope to look for the friend that age is similar, I live in Building 7, the telephone is "P>"The boy of my home is seven months for two years old, courage is relatively small, do not play with children voluntarily, if children play with him, do not refuse either. Want to look for some friends in the nearby Residential Area for him, can go out to play together at ordinary times, there are cars in the house, outing can go out together on weekend " Recently, similar " advertise for a friend notice " Appear in child-bearing QQ group, get the response of many young parents.P>Child: Think the mother gives birth to elder brothers of twinsP>First it sends cards to be to live the intersection of Chongqing and Ms. Ding, continent of new capital. Ms. Ding's son is 4 years old this year, introverted, with the mother-in-law, grandfather's life for a long time, do not I wonder how to get along with children, wish eagerly to play with children.P>"Mum, give birth to an elder brothers of twins for me. " One day, the son said to her, Ms. Ding has been surprised for half a day suddenly like this. Ask, know Residential Area have three elder sister and younger brother, two elder sister lead the younger brother play often just. "One one is so happy, there are two elder sisters. " The son says, he hopes to have two elder brothers to accompany him to play. It is sour that the son's words let Ms. Ding have pastry: "I am an only-child too, but cousins played together that year. Now, the son does not have even cousin. " Therefore, Ms. Ding decides to look for playmates in child-bearing QQ group for the son.P>Parents: The child is not so very lonely as playmatesP>The model is sent out, get numerous parents to respond. A lot of parents phone Ms. Ding and claim, after the child leaves school and goes home or has a holiday, because it is often depressed to find playmates. Many money order receipts to be signed and returned to the sender of parents leave own number and telephone number, hope to help children to look for the partner.P>"The child has a playmate, the personality will become a little better. " House live in large level ground compete the intersection of ground and yellow lady of 22 of garden say, in the past, the son did not have good friend, the family all things are his, family members can not all eat his thing. Later, the son knew one than his younger sister of young several months, the younger sister often comes to family to have a meal, the son learns to share one's own toy, good food together with younger sister gradually.P>Propose: It is convenient and reliable to seek companions nearbyP>Ms. Ding's model is initiated and discussed in group too. The experienced mother proposes, the child's playmate had better look for in the neighbours or classmates of Residential Area.P>The intersection of daughter and the intersection of fine jade and fine jade of Ms. Yang have one the intersection of twins and friend now, 3 little partner go outing together often. Ms. Yang says, in the past, common sisters of twins played in the Residential Area, she is taking daughter to participate in. When the children play, she chats with twins' mother. After being familiar with gradually, Ms. Yang invites twins to come to family and play, ask them to go to the cinema together, 3 children have a very good time.P>Ms. Zou " The magic weapon " Let children look for playmates in classmates. She says, last year, the child was on grade one in primary school, people did not accompanied him to play on summer vacation, very lonely. Then she inquire child's form master household nearby have classmate? Then ask children and wish to play with the other side? If the child is willing, she gets in touch with the other side's parents, let two children drop in and play. "The child finds the good friend now. " Ms. Zou says, two children have very good relation together, the parents of both sides often have a phone convesation, once in a while, still have a meal and network together.P>Reporter's written notesP>The lonely one " Two generations alone " P>Without siblings, partner going home without playing, see " like sheep's sheep " at home alone No matter how many toys and snacks, can't still fill in " two generations alone " Loneliness revealed in the expression in one's eyes.P>Send the card and look for the playmate as the child, it is " after 70 " to be many , " after 80 " "alone generation " Parents. They do not have siblings' loneliness and worries to go through, so hope even more one's own child is not lonely in childhood.P>A lot of parents say, " two generations alone " The child is clever, the IQ is very high, but their shortcoming on one's body is very outstanding: Selfish, will not associate with people, self-imposed some. The EQ is scarce, because the children lack the contacts, there are no playmates. So, help children to seek companions and mostly help children to recover the EQ education that is lacked.
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