It causes parents' concern that the boy 17 years old robs Have not " loved " Heart is lonely

It causes parents' concern that the boy 17 years old robs Have not " loved " Heart is lonely
A teenager " Bold " Since business hall snatch the mobile phones away for one part,if you can't spit, appear a startling unexpectedly after arresting: "It is not enough for parents to care about me, I want so as to arouse the attention from them. " Recently, the procuratorate of north district of Chongqing makes the decision to will not ratify the arrest to it, make the teenager return to campus.
The teenager robs the mobile phone Pay close attention to only in order to attract parents
At about 30 past 9 on August 12, in a mobile phone sales department in the north district of Chongqing, a teenager comes in, " I want the buying department a mobile phone " . The sales assistant introduces to the teenager warmly.
The teenager holds a mobile phone that the sales assistant passed to appreciate repeatedly, " I buy this one " . The teenager requires the sales assistant to draw the invoice subsequently. When the sales assistant turns round to draw a bill, the teenager turns round and goes out of the shop door and runs away rapidly violently. "Someone robs the mobile phone! " The sales assistant realizes, is busy going out of the gate to shout while chasing.
Running away in the way, this teenager is caught obtaining at the international preschool station of expressway to the airport of money harbour of north district of Chongqing by the security personnel of world in the gold harbour, sprained and send the nearby branch office of public security men of north district of Chongqing soon. Through appraising, this mobile phone is worth 1398 yuan.
Handle a case the police interrogate finding, it is a minor that this robs suspects, it is a little windy (assumed name) ,17 years old. He did not graduate from junior middle school until this year, was just enrolled by a high school in the north district of Chongqing.
, a little windy was suspected of being involved in grabing the mobile phone case and was transferred to to the procuratorate of north district of Chongqing to examine and ratified the arrest. Why will a little windy grab this criminal offence? In handle a case with minors Shen YingChun, public procurator of group, exchanges, a little windy that childishness has not taken off says a word like this: "It is not enough for parents to care about me, I want so as to arouse the attention from them. "
A little windy says, think for a long time, have expected that does such a piece of " earth-shaken " which robs the things by oneself The major issue will come. He has wandered up and down on the road for a long time, has come into a mobile phone shop and snatched the mobile phone away intensely finally. He says, in this way parents will come to care about him.
Parents are easy to feel ashamed and regretful Just thought that managed food and clothing well
As father of a little windy hears the child thinks parents not enough to care about him, very startled, some are not believed very much either: "Son reach outside with little young man those lead an aimless existence never, want, go, can go network once in a while just, how can go to rob? "
A little windy father feels guilty without already saying: "The baby is unsatisfactory in high school entrance examination this time, so often scolded by us recently. We two adults' schooling is not high, coming out early and returning late and making a living outside alive every day is for him, do not care about him at a meeting of Lang. "
A little windy father says regretfully, they are that a villages and towns in north district moved to the urban area from Chongqing several years ago, oneself and wife north urban area play casual labour in Chongqing, income more than 1000 yuan each month, because life, working pressure too large, when busy with the livelihood, cause too and relation drift apart between the a little windy.
A little windy father says, since a little windy begins to go to school, parents are besides meeting requirements such as his food and clothing,etc., seldom talk with him, never care about the son's private life too. Wait until a little windy has met accident, when parents want with he communicate, it is late.
A little windy father says regretting, he should would have chat with the son more, if know the son's true idea early, he will release more time to accompany the son, the son is unlikely to go to rob anything. "Seldom accompany the child to go out to play before this, should pay attention to later. "
The procuratorate of north district of Chongqing considers the plunder behavior of suspect a little windy is to act on impulse to cause, its plot is relatively light, subjective evil intention is small, it is minors, students, parents are busy earning money to support the family, are negligent of disciplining the child. If a little windy is punished criminally, will destroy him all one's life.
The procuratorate thinks, will fetch the measure not ratifying the arrest to the little elegance and will not continue endangering the society, there is no necessity that arrests. For this reason, the procuratorate of north district of Chongqing determines not to sanction arresting it.
The public procurator thinks It is lonely to care about and is not enough for children
Procuratorate criminal public procurator of procuratorial work office Shen YingChun of north district in Chongqing who undertakes this case, engaged in studying in minor's crime for a long time. Shen YingChun reminds: Care the child's school grade, but ignore their inner world, often lose more than gain.
"If minors can not get parents Guan Ai, understand in the psychological question, the psychology baffled can not get consolation, as time passes, probably misled under escaping and domination of antagonistic psychology. " Shen YingChun says worrying.
Shen YingChun says, a lot of question teenagers' family circumstances are all very superior now, parents are very busy at ordinary times, have no time to care about the child, is looked after by the old man in the family. Because parents are taken care of and has not put the child's love in place, make the child very lonely as time passes.
Meanwhile, a lot of parents have deficiency of education management of letting children eat one's fill and wear warm clothes, lay stress on raising instead of make light of teaching, valueing health more than the psychology, spoiling excessively etc., especially weakening the engagement of child growing up constantly constantly, add juvenile people's characterized antagonistic psychology, cause children not to want to be the same thing to parents' words. And once find the child goes on the wrong road, and then get involved in child's heart, often get half the result with twice the effort, make it up on too late again. (Tang ZhongMing Li Lin)
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